I really wanted to talk about the article I posted before. Because I really think taking birth control pills ruined sex for me for a while. This quote helps explain why:
The synthetic estrogen increases levels of a protein called sex-hormone-binding globulin (SHBG), which adheres to testosterone and makes it less available to the body. The result can be a crash in desire, muted orgasms, or pain during sex, according to Irwin Goldstein, M.D., director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in San Diego.I can definitely attest to that one! I actually wondered for a while what all the hype about sex was, because it just wasn't that fun for me. It hurt. If given the choice between sex and something else, I would always choose something else.
About a year or so after we were married, I had a great get-together with some friends. The topic of sex came up, and I mentioned how un-fun it was for me. They were very concerned for me (understandably). After reading this article, I think maybe I wasn't so crazy. I mean, "muted orgasms"? Um, yeah.
As soon as I went off of the pill, sex became a lot less painful and a lot more fun. And I realized that maybe I had been missing out for a long time!
I've talked to more women who have experienced the same issue!
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